Listen, I am sooo tired of people complaining about the SAME thing. MULTIPLE times.. I know I’m not alone…
Now don’t get me wrong! I will listen as a friend and confidant. However, if it has been 4 years and you still complain about the same thing and have made NO effort to change, STFU!
Do you realize how many changes you could have made instead of complaining? Yes, every complaint does not have an easy way out. However, every situation DOES have a way out!
I would rather listen to you tell ne your problem, then follow up with how you’re changing and/or fixing your problem!! Hell, I’d even help you find a solution!
If you don’t understand, here are some examples (and I PROMISE, I’m speaking for every woman, whether they admit it or not).
* A job- You hate your job; boss sucks; not enough pay. You’ve been complaining about your job for 6 months but have yet to search for another one.
Now if you have been actively searching and have not found anything, I’ll listen to you b*tch and moan all day, as long as you’re working towards a solution!
This applies to friendships, relationships, business decision and anything else that we are tired of… It is so draining for us and casts such a negative vibe over you! We all want everyone else to win too!
I WILL NO LONGER LISTEN TO PEOPLE COMPLAIN ABOUT SITUATIONS THEY CHOOSE TO BE IN.
In. 👏 That. 👏 Order. 👏